i always feel tat actually the type of ppl u like wouldn't affect r/s. most of the ppl won't be wid the type of ppl they describe as their likin.. nice lookin ppl would say tat they like nice lookin ppl. who don like to be wid some1 nice lookin? but when u go out on streets.. things are diff, or rather opposite..fat wid thin, tall wid short all kinds of weird combi. hm. seriously i think it is the feelin tat is more impt. i wont force thru things anymore.PAT believe me man.haha, i think let things happen naturally is much more beta for my situation.. i know wat i'm doin alr!!(= thanks for ur advice earlier on anyway.. sage